Among the twelve signs of the Zodiac, Geminis are often known for being smart, lively, and fickle. They love freedom, don’t like to be restrained, and are interested in new things. This personality makes them charming in person, but it also means that they don’t always fit in with every sign. Especially for some people with very different personalities, getting along with twins is not only not easy, but can even be particularly tiring. Here’s a look at which signs are most likely to feel pain and stress when it comes to getting along with Gemini.
Cancer: too emotionally heavy, easily hurt
Cancer is a very emotional sign, they long for a stable life and want to feel secure in their relationship. They like to stick to each other and want to feel cared for and loved at all times. However, Gemini is the kind of person who likes to be alone, free and doesn’t want to be tied down.
When the Cancer wants the Gemini to be more companionable and responsive to emotions, the Gemini may feel that it is a burden. Gemini is not very good at dealing with deep emotions, they are more used to getting along with people in a relaxed way. The Cancer has more emotional ups and downs, and can sometimes seem particularly sensitive or even emotional, which can make the Twins feel tired and overwhelmed.
In addition, the giant crab likes to have a regular, stable life, while the twins like to change, always want to try something new, which is also easy to let the giant crab produce uneasiness, worried that the other party will change their hearts or ignore their own. After a long time, both will feel that the relationship has become very hard, one feels not understood, one feels bound, no one is happy.
Virgo: the pursuit of perfection, but difficult to tolerate each other spontaneous
Virgo is the kind of person who demands a lot from life and pays attention to details. They are very organized and planful, and they like to arrange everything in advance. Gemini, however, like to go with the flow, flexible, a lot of things are spontaneous, not too concerned about the small details.
When living together, such differences will be constantly exposed. For example, Virgo may feel dissatisfied because the Gemini did not say in advance that the plan to change their minds, and feel that the other party is not reliable; while the Gemini feels that Virgo is too serious, fuss, and even some nagging.
And the two are very different in the way they express their feelings. Virgo likes to use action to prove that they care, such as cooking, cleaning, silent payment; while the twins pay more attention to communication and language, like to chat, like to express love through talking. This difference in communication styles can easily lead to misunderstandings and a gap in the relationship.
Capricorn: different goals, the pace is difficult to be consistent
Capricorn is a very career-oriented and responsible sign. They are determined to fight and hope to have a stable life and a certain social status in the future. Capricorn does not like to waste time on uncertain things, do things very pragmatic. Gemini is completely different, they are more important to the happiness of the moment, like to pursue their own interests, do not care so much about the long-term plans.
When two people dating, Capricorn often because of busy work, no time to accompany the twins to have fun or chat, and the twins will feel left out, the heart will feel empty. In turn, when Capricorn sees Gemini always pursuing fun, do not think about the future, will also feel that the other party is immature, unreliable.
Moreover, Capricorn’s thinking is traditional and his attitude towards life is conservative, while Gemini is open-minded and likes new things. This conceptual conflict will also make it difficult for the two to reach a consensus. One feels that the other is too indulgent, while the other feels that the other is too rigid, and the result is that no one can convince anyone, which will only increase the conflict.
Summary
Although Gemini itself is a lively, intelligent and fun sign, they are not for everyone. Signs like Cancer, Virgo and Capricorn who have stable personalities, regular lives, deep emotions or a sense of responsibility often have a hard time adjusting to the Gemini’s changes and spontaneity.
If they are together, they may be attracted at first because of the freshness of each other, but over time, problems will grow. The greater the personality differences, the harder it is to understand and tolerate, and eventually the relationship can easily become strained or even collapse.
Of course, this is not to say that these signs can’t necessarily get along with the twins, but that more understanding and communication is needed. If they can respect each other’s lifestyles and are willing to compromise with each other, then there is a chance that they can get along harmoniously even if they are different. But if both sides insist on their own rhythm, not willing to give in, then the relationship will really make people feel “special pain”.
